Talking Twos

I never liked the "terrible twos" label. It just seems so unfair for little people trying so hard to figure how the world works. I think a much better name would be "talking twos" that captures the constant amazement, and, yes, occasional frustration, by all involved parties much better :). Leon has always been a "watcher," taking his time before he plunges into something and talking has been just one of those areas. I had written before about how he made do with just a few words in expressing all his needs for the longest time and felt no pressure to branch out. Until, all of a sudden, he decided he was ready, and now he is trying to tell us something all the time, repeating everything he hears very competently. This has become Dari's favorite game, getting Leon to repeat things (including some that he should not ;). So here's the top-hits list (or what I could remember).

Leon is getting better at it now but "s" has not been an easy letter for him and so he would say "moof" instead of moose or "fnow" instead of snow.

Fortunately we are well into spring blooms and snow is a distant memory but I have a video from about that time (when Dari was at Disney), where I captured Leon's deliberately reluctant answer to "are you happy?" which has ALWAYS been a half-teasing "noooo..." :)

https://youtu.be/jeZpC9mvSMc

He, STILL, refuses to say his own name on most occasions, even though he knows how (Ooonik :)), and will instead substitute "baby." I suspect some of this may be caused by how different his name sounds in English (Leon) and Slovak (Onik - which is short for Leonik), so he found a middle ground. This is how a typical exchange goes, between Dari asking him to say something and then Leon "repeating" it back:

D: Dari plays soccer.
L: Socca, Daaa! (update: as of this week, he started calling Dari "Dayi" :)
D: Leon plays soccer
L: Socca, Baby!

Leon celebrated "cosmonauts' day" (it's a thing, look it up!) by singing a song unprompted and all by himself, when he graced us with a(n abbreviated) rendition of the "Wheels on the bus" - he was very pleased when I recognized the "bus bus, and round, all town" as the song it was supposed to be :))

He is also learning A LOT of phrases in their proper grammatical form etc. from Dari, which makes his acquisition of Slovak a little less one-sourced (compared to Dari's, who mostly got it from me). Leon now knows all his different conjugations / language versions of the relevant verbs for wanting me to come/go wherever he needs me (coming, come, idem, ides, chod!, go away...) and when he wakes up, he does not just call my name or cry but he asks if "I'm coming!" (Mami, ides??) - this video shows the urgency with which he usually says it.

https://youtu.be/NJEOskq1bH0

Finally, Leon seems to be learning his colors (he has been, correctly, pointing out everything pink) but I am not sure he quite gets the full concept because whenever I offer him something and it is not the specimen he wanted, he'll say he wants "the blue one," meaning the "other one." This is him and some pink magnolias near our house.

Little Brother Getting Bigger

Lately, the boys have been playing together much more actively, with Leon ready to copy everything that his big brother is doing. He wants to sit exactly where Dari is sitting, do exactly what he is doing, and play in exactly the same way (which is an exercise in patience for everyone). Still, when we went biking on a late winter day, recently (and I mean winter; it just would not go away this year) the dynamic ended up somehow causing them to switch their respective vehicles and be perfectly fine with it all.

We are now working on teaching Leon to assert himself a little more, which should be especially useful when Dari does something he is not supposed to (of course, with the hope that Leon follows suit and it is even MORE fun). The plan is for Leon to sort of discipline Dari by taking some of the fun out of it, while starting to make some independent decisions. For example, he could remind him that we do not walk on the back side of the couch, rather than trying to accomplish the same even more dangerously. This has been successful some of the time and will likely work a little better when Leon can express himself more eloquently.

What has worked much better, has been Leon telling Dari "no thank you!" whenever he does something that displeases Leon, like snatching a toy or playing rough. This is a major improvement over indiscriminate crying, which clearly was not getting Leon anywhere and was adding unnecessary decibels that, as you can imagine add up over the course of a day, or a weekend... Way to go little brother!

The vast majority of time they are getting along very well and can be super sweet together. For some reason, Dari has taken to calling Leon "squishy face" and giving him lots of hugs periodically. I think some of this might have been the unintended effect of one of Dari's classmates being very expressive in her love for "Leon the baby" (to the point where Dari's teachers had to intervene to get her to go easy on the hugs virtually every time we picked Dari up or dropped him off). This, by the way, is Leon ready to go collect big brother at school:

It was kind of interesting to see Dari get very protective, possessive, even, of Leon as this was happening. Thankfully, the happy bond is mutual. When Dari went on this trip to Disney with Daddy, Leon missed him tremendously and was super sweet about always sending him a good-night kiss (via pictures that I then sent along, so we now have this precious collection :).

Christmas and Snow

This past Christmas was the first one that Leon was somewhat aware of, at least in the sense that something else was going on than the usual. He seemed to enjoy trying new foods and was fascinated by the decorated tree, threatening (sometimes fatally) the bauble decorations, especially. Of course, that is what one is supposed to do at his age and fortunately it all went without any injuries :).

Another novel experience for Leon was snow. Actually, there was not much of it at first but that did not stop him from insisting on getting pulled around on the sled in Bimba and Dedo's garden in Slovakia. Eventually there was much much more snow to play with and our main challenge was convincing him that he did, indeed, need to wear all his cold weather accessories.
 

 As always, Leon was closely shadowing Dari in all that he was doing, whether it was poking around the pond to "wake up" fishies or joining forces to pull a(n empty :) sled, once the heaps of snow finally arrived.

While Dari was getting his first skiing lessons, Leon was perfectly content to play a little ski bunny and lounge around, displaying perfect winter weather / ski-resort competence :).

Leon had a lot of fun indoors in Slovakia too. He discovered Dedo's old camera collection and had a lot of fun with before it was safely place out of his reach. My favorite part about the picture below is that he is wearing my old sweater (in case you were wondering about his decidedly 80s look)

He went on a few fun play dates with new friends (kiddies of Mommy's friends) and below you see him hang out with Mas(h)ka. As if there were not entertainment enough, Bimba and Dedo took him and Dari to an indoor gym on one rainy day and he really got into all the mazes and climbing areas there. Although, apparently, Leon is NOT a fan of the ball pit...

Leon has always been best buddies with great-grandma (Starka) and in the pictures below you can see them sharing a laugh and also Leon giving Starka a lesson in using the iPad!

He had a great time in Slovakia and when we were settled in the airport hotel room, Dedo was able to snap this picture of Leon, which would easily find its place in the country's tourism promotion catalog.

You should not, therefore, mistake Leon's excitement on the plane for exultation about leaving Slovakia, he was just happy (as was I) that he scored a free seat yet again!! (that would be 4/4 if we count the Thanksgiving trip to KY as well). We definitely made the most of the lap-child savings!